This is the second time I am writing this post. The first one was not saved for some reason, so currently my vision is that the post somehow reappears. Well, that obviously won't happen but at least I tried.
We all have a vision, and these visions change as we go trough life. For example, I wanted to be a pilot (who didn't), but as you grow up you understand and see things differently.
I have a few visions for the future and I will share them with you (again). They are all somehow connected, but they don't really depend on one another.
First, I want to have a large family. Before I do that I need to get married (hopefully she will say yes, and hopefully she's not reading this post). By large family I mean five children at least; I grew up with three siblings and I had a great childhood and I still enjoy it. I want my children to have the same great experience.
My other vision, is opening my own business. I cannot provide too much info on this (don't want you to take away my idea), but it is in the process and I hope it will be successful.
I don't know what you think about my visions but I think I'm pretty modest with my visions. All I want is to be happy, and make sure my family is happy. If you can throw there an extra few $$, I'll be even happier...
I think that your vision is reasonable and achievable. Some people dream for a better future but I think a vision is far different from a dream. Ultimately I believe that your vision of happiness will help you lead a more enjoyable lifestyle as oppossed to others who dream of wealth. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteWow, at least 5! Finally a guy who wants a lot of children!!! Most guys prefer one or two kids, others prefer none! I love your vision about your family. Kids bring so much work, but as the same time they give more back. Please keep your vision because it's precious and rare.
ReplyDeleteThat is a cool vision to be a pilot. Personally I would have never changed that vision and stuck with it; However, I do agree with you that as you grow up you realize that some visions are not going to happen. Unfortunately that is called being realistic. Your visions are as you say very modest. I do not know if you noticed this, but your visions are personal visions; You do not wish to do something to benefit humanity or be the first person in a new galaxy. That is not a bad thing, it just means that you are very concerned with your life and leading it in a way that you feel is desirable; I think that is great. I think it is interesting how all your goals are inter-related. The fact that they are essentially intertwined only dictates that you are very focused on achieving your goals and hence realizing your vision. I hope that you will meet that special girl (who can hopefully help you with your business) and that you will have a great family.
ReplyDeleteI like your first vision very much. I believe that your girlfriend will definitely say YES to you! Why? I am a grill I know that family is very important to me. I always feel warm and happy when I stay with my family. I don't know what's the feeling when I having my own baby, but I believe it will be more happier later on because bring up my child will remind me all the happy memories when I was a child. Wish you will have a great family and your baby soon!
ReplyDeleteThank you all for you wonderful thoughts! It really makes me feel good.....
ReplyDeleteIntresting visions you have, and like many others our visions just get filtered down as we grow up turning our visions to try and stay more realistic, I for one would like to start a good family when the time comes but like most I probably will stick with just 2 to 3 at most, but wow 5 kids, I wish you the best of luck with that, but just because our visions get filtered down, it shouldn't limit what you hope for because you will just try strive harder for the less easily obtainable visions.
ReplyDeleteMy father was married twice and has three sons, 2 from one marriage, me from another. When ever we are all together at out grandmas house he always sits at the table and says "no imagine there were 5 of you, instead of just 3". Our grandma probably would have been a bit overworked, cooking for 6 each sunday!
ReplyDeleteits great to see that someone is family oriented and isnt afraid of having lots of kids.. Good luck finding a girl who is up for that!
thanks for your comment and thought, I think your first vision is very challenging unless you find a wife that share the same love for 5 children. Most people that I know only want 2 children. Five sounds a lot of work and $$ necessary to support them. However, if that's what you want to do. Good luck with that.
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